Story #4

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Instead of going after the person one love,Β  one should just care about the people who value them. You must have heard this many times in many different version,  I certainly have.  If we think we love someone we just go after them right,  headfirst? Not thinking about the consequences and if we face any problem,  a simple excuse ‘I was in love’ is just all we give.  Infact the word ‘love’ is used by people so many times that it really confuses the actual meaning of the word. And then we all cry about breakups and heartbreaks. If we know that our heart is to be treasured,  why do we hand it to kids as a playtoy.  A kid is a kid,  oviously he will handle it roughly. Its in our hands to distinguish between an adult who will handle it with care or a child who will just play with it or maybe sometimes break it.  And if we can’t find any diferrence why don’t we just wait?
It is easier said than done though.. 

Annie

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11 thoughts on “Story #4

  1. Oh! Annie the preacher!πŸ˜πŸ‘
    This is a philosophy I also believe in that is that ‘love’ is too big a word to be used haphazardly. We use it synonymously with ‘like’, ‘crush’, ‘infatuate’, ‘adore’, ‘admire’ and other sorts and maybe we should stop. Love is a different and complex emotion with so many different variations that the ‘love’ we carry for a person changes from person to person. The same may be lenient towards admiration in some cases or infatuation in other or in other cases be an all exclusive genre one even we couldn’t define and that is why maybe we tend to use it synonymously and also tend to overuse it. Anyways, in quoting the clichΓ© isn’t it a paradox? One should care about the persons who value them rather than going after a new person. Now, if a person A goes after person B isn’t the person A valuing person B so should B not care about A. So what about C which values A. And what if B finds another and goes after D so shouldn’t D care about B and then what happens A and B?
    What am I speaking?πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚It’s more confusing then Quantum Mechanics.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  2. I was trying to speak about love as a whole. One is hurt even when a friend betrays or a family leaves. And the thing about loving and caring is that.. One can care about a person without being ‘romantically involved’. So if a person really cares about you, he or she would still do even if they are involved with someone else.
    A has C likewise B & D will also have someone. And the interesting thing there are many people who care about a single person. So A will have C.. K.. H.. M.. O.. Hi… Etc etc

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  3. I agree – it is easier said than done. I don’t think you always choose who you give your heart to – sometimes it just happens πŸ™‚ BUT I also don’t think you find real love unless you are willing to put yourself out there πŸ™‚

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